Today I decide to be wealthy.
I had a hard time getting started today. I just waste so much time.
At 2:00 Linda and I went visiting teaching to a young wife and mother we've been with for a while. Linda has been with her for a lot longer time. We got there as she and her husband were having a fight--he'd been drinking, and, worse, was denying it. I listened to him for a while, and suggested bringing back a pizza when we returned.
We took her to a restaurant, where Linda bought some appetizers and let her talk. Linda gently reminded her that he was a good man, and that alcoholism is a hard thing, and that she knew he had the problem when they first got together. She also suggested that she come back to church, and that he go to the 12-step meetings. There were some other family needs--a couch needed to be taken to the dump, stuff to Goodwill, and a stray cat to the Humane Society.
We went to the pizza place. I didn't have any coupons to save a couple of dollars. I took out my unemployment card, and thought about how all the money in the world is God's, and that I was given money to help others. And I bought the pizza,and we took her back to her apartment. Her husband was apparently in one of the bedrooms, watching television. We got the stuff that needed to go to Goodwill, hugged, made arrangements for Saturday, and left. So lesson #5 was put into action today
On the way home, I bought some sour cream and after I got home, made some cookies for June, who had invited my husband and I over for dinner. Doug ended up working in Prineville for a while longer, and missed the dinner.
Doug said that Bank of America had sent us a 1099, for $6,000, and that we were going to have to pay taxes on it, of about $2,000, and that if I had agreed to declare bankruptcy back then, we wouldn't even have had to pay taxes. I thought about how if we'd declared bankruptcy, we probably wouldn't be in the house right now. He was going to take money out of our 401(k) again, but I suggested that the government does take payments. I reminded him that we didn't declare bankruptcy as we had no assets to protect. I remembered later that if we have cancer or something drastic health-wise, we'd be stuck.
Tonight is Antiques Roadshow. We'll watch it, as it was done in Eugene, Oregon, and see all the stuff that people have and how valuable it is, and daydream what could have been done if we'd had the money instead.
When I read the Book of Mormon last night, I just opened it at random and saw this:
Behold, could ye suppose that ye could sit upon your thrones, and because of the exceeding goodness of God ye could do nothing and he would deliver you? Behold, if ye have supposed this ye have supposed in vain. (Alma 60:11)
So I felt like a slug after I read it, and thought of it this morning while I waited for the phone to ring with an interview or a job offer. I felt, though, visiting the young woman, that I was supposed to be there today.
Later in the day, a former coworker at Freddy's, who has been having her own employment misadventures, posted this on Facebook:
Today I decide to be wealthy.
I had a hard time getting started today. I just waste so much time.
At 2:00 Linda and I went visiting teaching to a young wife and mother we've been with for a while. Linda has been with her for a lot longer time. We got there as she and her husband were having a fight--he'd been drinking, and, worse, was denying it. I listened to him for a while, and suggested bringing back a pizza when we returned.
We took her to a restaurant, where Linda bought some appetizers and let her talk. Linda gently reminded her that he was a good man, and that alcoholism is a hard thing, and that she knew he had the problem when they first got together. She also suggested that she come back to church, and that he go to the 12-step meetings. There were some other family needs--a couch needed to be taken to the dump, stuff to Goodwill, and a stray cat to the Humane Society.
We went to the pizza place. I didn't have any coupons to save a couple of dollars. I took out my unemployment card, and thought about how all the money in the world is God's, and that I was given money to help others. And I bought the pizza,and we took her back to her apartment. Her husband was apparently in one of the bedrooms, watching television. We got the stuff that needed to go to Goodwill, hugged, made arrangements for Saturday, and left. So lesson #5 was put into action today
On the way home, I bought some sour cream and after I got home, made some cookies for June, who had invited my husband and I over for dinner. Doug ended up working in Prineville for a while longer, and missed the dinner.
Doug said that Bank of America had sent us a 1099, for $6,000, and that we were going to have to pay taxes on it, of about $2,000, and that if I had agreed to declare bankruptcy back then, we wouldn't even have had to pay taxes. I thought about how if we'd declared bankruptcy, we probably wouldn't be in the house right now. He was going to take money out of our 401(k) again, but I suggested that the government does take payments. I reminded him that we didn't declare bankruptcy as we had no assets to protect. I remembered later that if we have cancer or something drastic health-wise, we'd be stuck.
Tonight is Antiques Roadshow. We'll watch it, as it was done in Eugene, Oregon, and see all the stuff that people have and how valuable it is, and daydream what could have been done if we'd had the money instead.
When I read the Book of Mormon last night, I just opened it at random and saw this:
Behold, could ye suppose that ye could sit upon your thrones, and because of the exceeding goodness of God ye could do nothing and he would deliver you? Behold, if ye have supposed this ye have supposed in vain. (Alma 60:11)
So I felt like a slug after I read it, and thought of it this morning while I waited for the phone to ring with an interview or a job offer. I felt, though, visiting the young woman, that I was supposed to be there today.
Later in the day, a former coworker at Freddy's, who has been having her own employment misadventures, posted this on Facebook:
Today I decide to be wealthy.
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